Friday, December 26, 2025

Christmas 2003

More gems from Memoir Notes, from our Christmas letter from 2003

 

Dear family and friends,

 

Here we are, almost ready to start a new year, grimacing at the things we planned to do but didn't.  We hope that you were all able to get done what you hoped, or at least what kept you out of prison.

 

We are proud that Ping-Hwei, 21, is ready for full time work.  He has finished high school, tried a job here and there, and is working with the state and the county job placement services to find a suitable job.  He grows in humor and helpfulness.  He has become a good cook, and also loves to go to the city library.

 

Caleb. 13, in the middle of 8th grade, is growing into a tall deep-voiced young man, and has a dedication to daily personal Bible study.  The first quarter at school he received Straight A's, and his teachers say he's a great student who always has his hand raised with the answer.  He continues his baritone horn playing, both in the band and in the jazz band.  He loves to read, almost anything, and he's finally at the age where all he seems to think about is girls.

 

Rebecca, 13, 7th grade, also had shot up in the last year like a Kansas wheat stalk.  She is lovely and capable, and can do whatever she is asked, whether at home, school, or church.  She is in her third year of violin, and based on Murray's talk with the Orchestra conductor, she is a great musician.  She also plays bass keyboard in the jazz band.  She constantly finds projects to do.  She has acquired and stocked a 10-gallon fish tank, and claims that a couple of the fish kiss her hand (okay, Kathy put her hand in the tank, before the evening feeding, and darned if some of the fish DON'T kiss hands).  Rebecca recently planted beans for a science fair project, comparing dirt with fertilizer and worms to plain dirt.  However, Caleb had to pick up and deposit the worms for her.  Her great hope is to buy a sewing machine, so she can hem Murray's pants.  If anybody has one they don't use, send it to the above address, please!

 

Sarah, 11, in the 6th grade (Aaahhhh!! 3 in middle school at the same time!!)  grows sweeter and more interesting every day.  She is affectionate, enthusiastic, and subject to rapid mood changes.  She tried out for a part with a community theater this year and would have received the part if the production had not been postponed.  We hope she will continue her interest in this area.  She has gone on a hiatus from flute playing, singing in the school choir, and continues to enjoy writing.  When she can't get a ride from Murray, she rides her bike 2 ½ miles each way to school, or else takes the city bus.

 

Benjamin, 6, is in first grade, and his school barely knows what to do with him.  They have never had a gifted, totally blind child before.  He has many interests, including:  piano, computers (mostly exploring programs and seeing what happens if he changes the settings), reading computer manuals, reading his new New King James version of the Bible, continuing his interest in recipes and cookbooks, and reading the advance Braille copy of the math book he will use in second grade.  He enjoys his friends at school and at daycare, and church, and already claims to have a girlfriend and to know who he is going to marry (wonder if it's the same person?).

 

We continue our membership with the Westlake Church of Christ – at the end of last year, we renamed ourselves Hope Christian Church.  We sold our property and started meeting at Westlake High School in March of this year, and construction started on our new facility (2 miles west of the old facility) during the summer.  We hope that construction might be finished by the end of May. 

 

Speaking of Jesus, the Book of Isaiah says,

"Yet it was our weaknesses he carried (when he carried his cross); it was our sorrows that weighed him down.  And we thought his troubles were a punishment from God for his own sins!  But he was wounded and crushed for our sins.  He was beaten that we might have peace.  He was whipped, and we were healed!  All of us have strayed away like sheep.  We have left God's paths to follow our own.  Yet the LORD laid on him the guilt and sins of us all."  Chapter 53, verses 4-6 

Friday, December 19, 2025

Jesus Is King from the book of Mark, Chapter 1:1-20

 

Matthew and Luke begin Jesus’s story by telling how he came as a baby. Our pastor talked recently about how the gospel of Mark introduces Jesus as king.

 

Mark 1:1-3:

The beginning of the good news about Jesus the Messiah, the Son of God, as it is written in Isaiah the prophet:

“I will send my messenger ahead of you,

    who will prepare your way”

“a voice of one calling in the wilderness,

‘Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him.’”

 

Jesus is the Messiah, the anointed one. During Jesus’s time, if a king was traveling, he would send people before him, to make rough places in the roads ready for him to travel them. Isaiah 40:3 predicted that John the Baptist would come to prepare the way for God. John came to prepare people’s hearts and lives to hear from Jesus, God in the flesh.

 

Verses 9-11:

At that time Jesus came from Nazareth in Galilee and was baptized by John in the Jordan. Just as Jesus was coming up out of the water, he saw heaven being torn open and the Spirit descending on him like a dove. And a voice came from heaven: “You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.”

 

Jesus’s baptism was his anointing as king. The heavens were torn open, God making a big move. The Spirit rested on him, anointing him as with oil. The Father proclaimed that he loved his son and was pleased with him.

 

Verses 12-13:

At once the Spirit sent him out into the wilderness, and he was in the wilderness forty days, being tempted by Satan. He was with the wild animals, and angels attended him.

 

Jesus didn’t gather an army and go out against the enemies of Israel. He went into the wilderness to fight the worst enemy, Satan.

 

Verses 14-15:

After John was put in prison, Jesus went into Galilee, proclaiming the good news of God. “The time has come,” he said. “The kingdom of God has come near. Repent and believe the good news!”

 

Jesus said that he was bringing God’s kingdom right then. He invited people to repent, to change their minds, to change what they were following and to turn to believe what he had to say to them. To go a different direction with their life.

 

Verses 16-20:

As Jesus walked beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” At once they left their nets and followed him.

When he had gone a little farther, he saw James son of Zebedee and his brother John in a boat, preparing their nets. Without delay he called them, and they left their father Zebedee in the boat with the hired men and followed him.

 

Jesus didn’t call the smartest, strongest, most elite to be a part of his kingdom. He chose common ordinary men, fishermen.

 

I want to study the book of Mark with a focus on how it shows Jesus as king. 

Friday, December 12, 2025

Comfort Food From Kathy's Kitchen, Homemade Paydays

I can actually take no credit for these. Murray got the recipe from his aunts Elena and Melody. After he made them, he was getting ready for work, and I cried out, “You’re not taking any of those to work, are you?” Yes. Shameless. But so yummy.

 

Ingredients:

16-ounce jar of salted peanuts

Two cups or full bag of Reese’s Pieces peanut butter chips

14 ounce can sweetened condensed milk

Two cups mini marshmallows

A glug of vanilla

 

Directions6

Butter 9 by 13-inch dish. Pour half of peanuts in dish. Spread until even.

 

Melt peanut butter chips and sweetened condensed milk over low heat. Stir to prevent burning. When melted, add marshmallows and a glug of vanilla, and continue to stir.

 

When fully melted, pour or spoon the hot portion over peanuts. Add remaining peanuts on top. Don’t stir. Press peanuts into melted mixture with hands or spoon. Refrigerate one to nine hours. 

Friday, December 5, 2025

Let God Love You Today

My friend Stats Ky Bey said God shared this with her during her devotion, to comfort her in a time of great ups and downs. Thank you, Stats Ky, for sharing this with us.

 

Let God love you today.

Let God carry you through the hard times,

Let Him bless you with good times.

Let God love you today.

Let God carry that heavy load.

Let God figure it out,

Let him show up and show out.

 

Let God love you today.

He will answer when you call,

He will keep his promise you can stand on them all.

 

Let God love you today.

Just keep hold of his hand,

let God reveal His daily plan.

 

Let God love you today.

He gave you His Son,

with him the work is finished, it is done.

 

Let God love you today,

you are His beloved, His child.

Let God love you today,

and rest in His Grace and Peace.